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As an instructor...
Bad: I think I wasn't as tough on some of my students as I should have been. I had a student in one class that really brought the dynamic down. That negativity bred more negativity in other students and led to a very difficult month. I need to figure out a way to divert the negativity and figure out how my students can channel that energy into something positive.
Good: The students I could connect with, I REALLY connected with. And those students, even if other issues prevented them from being successful in my course, will definitely succeed in other ways.
On the homefront:
Bad: The long hours at work this month left me disconnected from Big Guy and Little Guy. They also contributed to one tired, stressed, and cranky Kitten as I tried to balance work and moving... I was not always successful. Little Guy, in particular, dislikes the long hours that go with a split shift. He wailed at the thought of me having to go to work a few times. I had to tell him on my days off that I was staying home. And Tuesday, Big Guy came in to see me in my off period and Little Guy spent the last half of the visit crying because he wanted me to go home with him.
Part of his clinginess stems from the uproar of moving, I am sure. But... I still feel like a crap mom when it happens. Although moving was the other rough part on the homefront. By Sunday, this will all be behind me, but the stress of packing and organizing everything fell mainly on Big Guy because, well, he's home to do it. However, my inability to affect the outcome led to stress and one massive blowout here at the end. Next time we move, I may drink more heavily.
Good: The house is almost packed. When we were able to work together, we did WELL. Not only did we do well, but we were SPECTACULAR. Plus, we were almost in each other's heads on the organization and planning on a regular basis. It reiterated that Big Guy and I are definitely partners and definitely have improved our communication skills over the past 8 years. The entire house is almost packed up and we are almost ready to go. The house will be a definite step in the right direction (though I think any step out of where we are is "the right direction"). Where we have been living had a purpose, but that is long gone. Now, we can start a new chapter.
Overall, the month had its ups and downs, but it was a positive experience and certainly one I can use to gain insight into myself and my life. Once it truly ends and next month begins with its classes as I live in the new place, I can see what new items I have carried with me and begin the planning for other areas.