Now that the weather has been warming up and our house isn't so cold, I am getting Little Guy back on the potty training train. He's not happy about it but we've got to get this done. I never thought I would have an untrained 4 year old, but he hates having to sit and take the time to go to the bathroom. Of course, he also hates it when we have to take the time to change his diaper.
Today, however, I tried a new trick. There was no playing on Starfall or watching of TV in the front room until he used the potty. There was definite wailing, gnashing of teeth, and overall unhappiness but the stubborness finally broke about 10 minutes ago when we had pee in the potty. After a bit of celebratory yays and dancing, I flipped the breaker back on (because he knows how to turn on the computer and the TV), and he is now happily playing away on Starfall.
I've also told him that if he tells me when he has to go potty and doesn't use his diaper, then I will leave it on. We'll see if this works. I'm not so keen on using his education as an incentive to use the potty, but we're running out of ideas and this is something he cares enough about to work. My goal is not to break his spirit and give him enough encouragement to do this on his own, but I have to get him to use the potty.
A lot of the sites I've read say that this is something that kids have to choose to do on their own because this is the first choice they really have any influence over. I just wish he'd choose to do what I want him to do. I am really looking forward to his choice to use the potty. Wish us luck!